Kira Kastenhuber

Kira Kastenhuber

Crime: Murder

Kira Kastenhuber of Perry, New York, USA, is a very organized sort of killer. Cold-blooded too. She’d decided to murder her former friend and co-worker, Desirae Withey, She knew that the woman had 2 children who needed her, but she didn’t care. Why? Because Desirae Withey had begun dating her ex-boyfriend, and that, apparently, is a capital offense.

I guess Kira Kastenhuber never cottoned to the notion of “moving on”. Instead of putting her ex-boyfriend in the past, she likely considered him as belonging to her forever. No friend or ex-friend was ever, ever allowed to date him. Ever.

I don’t know why she considered herself so powerful that she could dictate others’ relationships, and ruthlessly punish those who didn’t comply. I’m guessing her willingness to murder gave her that power.

On February 6, 2016, it was time to inflict punishment on Desirae Withey. The organized killer had already written her entire plan down in preparation. Gloves, check. Hair pulled back, check.

Late that night, Kira Kastenhuber broke into Desirae Withey’s home on Borden Avenue. The hellbitch quietly approached her unsuspecting victim who was probably asleep in bed. She then launched her brutal, vicious attack without mercy. Poor Desirae Withey was beaten, stabbed and strangled to death. She was only 33 years old, a mother who was loved and needed by her children.

Kira Kastenhuber had another to-do on her list. She actually took the time to cut the victim’s fingernails in case her DNA could be discovered on them. Stupidly, however, she left the clippings at the scene.

In the morning, one of the children found the body and told a neighbour who called 911. The police immediately responded and set about solving the horrific crime.

Following leads, New York State Police investigators Kyle Pomeroy and John Spero went to the Kastenhuber home. They found the hellbitch there and invited her to go with them to the police station. She agreed to go.

For 4 1/2 hours Kira Kastenhuber was questioned on and off. She was calm and articulate, and although she claimed to have had “six beers the night before and a seventh, early that morning” she appeared to be completely sober.

It wasn’t until she was asked to take a polygraph that she finally asked for a lawyer and then shut up. She was allowed to leave and go to her mother’s house on Post Avenue in Rochester. I have to wonder what her family thought about it all. Did they know then that Kira Kastenhuber was a suspect in a murder case?

Whatever her family’s reaction, the hellbitch didn’t have a good night’s rest. Maybe her guilty conscience finally made an appearance. The next day Rochester police officers were dispatched to the home on a report of a woman who had taken a pile of pills. They found Kira Kastenhuber the killer stumbling about, mumbling about something that happened in Perry and how she meant to leave a note for Perry police.

The sadistic killer, full of hydrocodone and oxycodone, had to throw up, but afterward she found the note and gave it to Rochester Police Officer Andrea Bouffiou. The note was a confession to murder.

Kira Kastenhuber was taken to Strong Memorial Hospital for treatment for an overdose. When she was released, she was arrested and charged with 2nd-degree murder, 1st-degree burglary, and acting in a manner injurious to a child less than 17 years old.

On March 17, the hellbeastly killer pled not guilty. By the time her October 6, 2016 appearance in Wyoming County Court came around, she’d made a plea deal. She pled guilty to 2nd-degree murder, and was sentenced to 15 years to life in prison.

That’s right, folks. Kira Kastenhuber, 38, has a glimmer of hope that she’ll get out of prison in 15 years. IMO, she shouldn’t have such a chance. Desirae Withey’s children won’t get their mother back in 15 years, or 25, or ever. They deserve to know their mother’s murderer will never get out.

Desirae Withey

Desirae Withey

IMO, a woman who can murder a former friend so viciously and heartlessly shouldn’t ever be freed. A woman who considers someone dating her ex-boyfriend deserves execution should be held behind bars for the rest of her life. Kira Kastenhuber, the cold-blooded killer, has such an unnatural nature I doubt she’ll ever be rehabilitated. She is, IMO, where she deserves to be.

RIP, Desirae Withey. I extend my heartfelt condolences to her family and friends. She sounds like a wonderful person. She was an artist who loved writing poetry, cooking, music and dancing, and playing games. She was a great mom. She is surely sorely missed.

Wyoming County Free Press article – confession admissible
Wyoming County Free Press article – guilty plea
WIVB News article – sentencing
WKBW News article – sentencing

7 Responses to Kira Kastenhuber

  1. Moodymagic says:

    This is one hellbeast who should be locked away for the rest of her life. Burn in hell monster. The Withey children deserved to have their Mother with them for years and years.

  2. Abby says:

    Sounds like a complete sociopath who couldn’t handle being set aside for a younger prettier woman. Very scary to know we have monsters like this living among us

  3. DecentPeopleOnly says:


    I Fail to Understand how there can be such a Thing as ” 2nd Degree ”
    Murder. Murder is Murder Simple .

    What Happened is Certainly Not Justifiable Homicide

    Murder Warrants the Death Penalty .After All the Murder Victim cannot
    Appeal against being Murdered after being Murdered

  4. AlabamDeb says:

    I can’t imagine the horror those children walked in on the next morning. Bless their hearts. Not only losing their Mom, but to stain their brain with THAT memory is almost as bad as the murder, IMO.

  5. bulldoggy says:

    She’s one scary bitch. I hope to hell she didn’t have kids of her own.

    • Anonymous says:

      She had kids. I am her ex-boyfriends son. She had 3 kids. I can’t believe she did it. My dad said it was jealousy.

  6. Jeni C says:

    Wow. She acted exactly like these millenials do today. The “if you don’t think like me and don’t like what I like, then you are WRONG and don’t deserve the right to have your own opinion” mentality that most millenials have. She may be 38, but she acted like a spoiled douchebag teenager in my opinion! She derseves everything she gets and MORE! For someone who didn’t give a rat’s ass about these children not having a mother Because of her actions, she deserves even worse for doing that to innocent children! I am so sick of hearing about people murdering people over the most asinine, trivial reasons. People murdering their own children. There’s not a day that goes by that I don’t hear or read about some piece of shit parent killing or abusing their child to the point of death. I’m afraid to even let my own kids date in the future, for fear that their spouse will just snap and kill my child and/or their kids! Hell, I’m afraid to take them out in public, PERIOD! People pulling out guns and knives, and killing others for ridiculous selfish reasons, like, because the driver/person in front of them is taking too long at a stop sign or at the ATM! The stop sign reason is from an actual incident that happened last week in Arkansas. The guy said the old woman in front of him was taking too long at a stop sign, so He got out of his car (with his girlfriend in the car also) with a gun and started shooting. He hit the old woman’s 3 year old grandson who was sitting in the back seat, along with his 1 YEAR OLD sibling! Really? People of the United States, THIS is what your country is becoming. Spoiled entitled people who think the world and everyone else owes them. These type of people like Kira sleazebag and the idiot who shot and killed a 3 year old need to be put down. Make an example out of them. People aren’t afraid to do these things because they think they can get away with it. It makes me ill. If I was a judge, they’d all be given a IV cocktail. Be done with them, no hardship on the taxpayers!!

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